girlhood

While I am the number one supporter for everyone being their own main character in their own life , sometimes everything is not about you. Now you may be wondering how I believe both of those statements to be true at the same time but let me explain. Whether you are struggling with a coworker, a friend, or even a stranger, remember that you cannot control their actions. Personally, I am struggling with a not so nice coworker, and I had to take a step back and remind myself that it is not about me. In this situation I know that I am a hard worker and I take pride in that and the complaints from my coworker do not reflect on the work that I do. Something that I have learned is a lot of people project their personal lives and negativities onto people who do not deserve it. I am 100% confident in the fact that I do not deserve the disrespect from my coworker, so I can only assume that the underlying cause is due to something in her personal l ife. Possibly something was lacking in...

If you were alone in the woods would you rather encounter a bear or a man? As a woman this hypothetical question makes me contemplate the safety measures that girls have to make on a day-to-day basis. I have personally found in my life that I feel the safest around my girl group. Social media platforms have proven that this is a universal experience for most women. Being with my girls creates a safe space to escape and enjoy the small things, like experiencing a night out; however, the main event is getting ready with your girl friends. These small expressions of girlhood create the bonds that last a lifetime, from sharing makeup tips to scream-crying to Taylor Swift, each step to a girl's night is carefully crafted to create a safe environment for everyone to be themselves and celebrate each other's individual strengths. This all starts with the group chat.  THE PLAN: (aka group chat)  The plan is the foundation of the night. This is where the events of the night are discuss...